Tyler is the resident knight in shing armor. he has come to many a rescue. So glad you are starting to get things clicking. We've all been there, done that! That is why I am so thankful for so many helpful friends on the forum. What works for one person, doesn't necessarily mean the next person will "get it". It may take many different explanations until one just "clicks".
I work with what I am comfortable with and then go to the next level. Sometimes I skip a few levels. But is just a fun journey with my kitty. I know you will really enjoy your new kitty and in no time will have it purring.