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Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 3rd, 2013, 7:34 pm
by MeFlick
Kathy, just wanted to say I was still thinking and praying for your family!

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 3rd, 2013, 10:20 pm
by Lindacrew4
such sad news, praying for you and your family, Maybe Retta will have a prayer she can recite for all of us.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 3rd, 2013, 11:51 pm
by Retta
Kathy and Linda-if I may.

Lord, We realize in this world there are evil things and people who also are hurt by those things. We ask that you be with Kathy and her family and friends. Help them through all of this. There are no real answers and yet such pain. Please comfort each of them as only you can. Bring
things into their lives and people to encourage, strengthen, and listen. Meet each and every need.
Lord help them to know You are there.

Lord thank you so much for hearing us and answering our prayers. In Jesus precious name we pray.

Amen

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 4th, 2013, 6:32 am
by Lindacrew4
Amen
Thanks Retta for your comforting prayers

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 20th, 2013, 11:04 am
by kathybessey
Thank you all and Retta thank you for that prayer. You all mean so very much to me and I it helps my heart to know you are all here.

Life has been hectic as anyone can imagine but to throw in the need to find a larger home for all of us and motion hearings on top of having to hire an attorney to deal with the parents of the person that did this has just added more to our plates. - Long story and I won't bother you all with it. The good thing is we have a good attorney now and are taking the first steps to deal with them and prepared to go through court hearings against them if necessary.

I haven't been able to craft for nearly two months now due to the move I was supposed to make and everything still be packed in boxes waiting to move to a larger house. Looks like we will all have to be crammed into my little house for another month, but we do have a house to move into either the end of May or first weekend in June. My daughter Crystal and her two children are moving back to Idaho from Texas to be with us over this next year as we go through the murder trial and sentencing processes (they will arrive here April 30th). So that puts me, my darling little man Aiden, daughter Erin and the new baby Augustus (born ten days after Joey passed away), Crystal and her children Bonnie and Mason all in my little 2 bedroom house for a month.

I am going to try to get on here now and at least see what all you wonderful people are up to and get reacquainted with old friends.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 20th, 2013, 11:11 am
by Angel135612
Kathy, it is so good to see you on here again.... I hope you do come back more often. I'm sure the next few months are going to be difficult, but I know you will be able to make the best of it and get through this with your head held high.
If you need to talk, you know how to get me on Skype!!!! HUGS!!!! :bighug: :bighug: :bighug:

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 20th, 2013, 11:27 am
by kathybessey
Thanks Diane!!! My world is just so completely different now and half the time I don't know up from down or right from left but we are getting through the days a step at a time.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 20th, 2013, 12:15 pm
by Elizabeth
Kathy, I can only imagine the turmoil in you life right now. I am thinking of you often, and like Diane, I am happy to see you pop in here when you can. Maybe finding a moment to check in here can be an escape from everything else that is going on. Sending hugs!

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 20th, 2013, 1:42 pm
by kim
Still praying for you. Just imagine the evil in the world. I watch the news and something is going on all the time. The world has gone crazy.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 7:37 am
by Retta
Hugs and prayers Kathy.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 9:52 am
by kathybessey
Thanks everyone! I just wanted to share with you a couple of my favorite pictures of our Joey. He was such a happy little boy and was so excited to become a big brother. I had bought him a book for Christmas about being a big brother and he would make his mommy read it to him all the time and pat her tummy while she read it. The first picture is the new grandbaby Augustus with a picture of his big brother. The others are two of my favorite pictures of Joey.
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Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 10:03 am
by kmmhug
He sure was a cutie. How sad that Augustus will never get to meet his big brother.... :(

I am so glad your family is able to band together during the trial phase. You and your family are in my prayers and I am praying that the person who did this will be brought to justice! I am sorry that the family of the perpetrator is causing trouble as well. You guys have enough to deal with, without them adding even more stress and strain! (((hugs)))

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 2:59 pm
by Elizabeth
What beautiful boys. Thanks for sharing the photos. I am heartbroken for you all.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 5:47 pm
by Barbara
Beautiful photos. Beautiful memories. No one can take the memories from you. Take care.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 7:32 pm
by kathybessey
Thanks ladies. Nope they sure can't take the memories. We talk about Joey often, we watch videos of him and the living room has his pictures all over the place and other little reminders of Joey.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 22nd, 2013, 8:02 pm
by kim
It helps to talk about all the wonderful memories that you have. It hurts, but it helps.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: April 24th, 2013, 7:11 am
by MeFlick
Kathy, continued prayers for your family. I am so sorry for the loss of little Joey and then to have it compounded by everything else just makes it more difficult. I am glad you will have your family there together to help each other as you deal with all the things to come. We are hear to help when you need others outside your core family! Great pictures of little Joey. Glad you are finding ways to remember the good times from his short live. That will help you all to heal over time.

Re: Kathy Bessey grandson

PostPosted: May 28th, 2013, 9:50 pm
by iggylover
Kathy,

Words cannot say enough.... I am so sorry for the loss of your dear grandson, and in such a horrible fashion. Thoughts, prayers, and cyber-hugs to you and your family as you are going through this hard time.