That's me. I do like a neat house and I do like things in their place. On certain places, I do get a little upset if things are out of place FROM SOMEONE ELSE...my office desk being one of them and my craft room is the other. I do go through every so often and sort my spices in alpha order and my clothes into short sleeve, long sleeve, by color, etc. It doesn't stay that way and I am okay with that....living with slobs, you just learn to live with some disorder!
BUT, my desk and my craft rooms are MINE. I expect other people, when using anything from these areas, to place things back where they got them from. This is so that I don't spend countless hours looking for them. I spend countless hours enough as it is searching after I have moved something.
You know how every house has it's junk drawer? Well, in my kitchen alone, I have five. I have the "traditional" junk drawer that I put little compartment trays in so that it can be somewhat organized. Well, DH just dumps everything in there. Plus the other four drawers which were never intended to be junk drawers. Not to mention the two drawers in the dining room that hold all his junk. The garage....his four drawers in his night stand.....the chair in the corner of the kitchen.....you get the picture? Oh, and his drawer in the bathroom....I just dumped that drawer into several Walmart plastic bags and have it tucked away for him to sort through. I am thinking of getting several large plastic bins and doing the same with all the junk drawers. I clean them out about every three months and get it back down to the one drawer, but it grows back to all the drawers.