Thanks ladies. I have great support in family (and his family) and I am sad that this has come to pass but I am moving forward with my life and will be happier!
On another note...still playing with SCAL and just trying different things that I do in MTC and seeing how to do it in SCAL, BTW finding it very easy to do in SCAL, but my question is this.....(could do new post but I'm here, so....) I am editing nodes. There are four boxes in upper left above where you choose pointer, node editing tool, etc) I know it has to do with node editing but can anyone tell me what they mean? And is there a function in node editing to make a line a straight line? I do use that in MTC alot. I did figure out quite quickly how to move a node, delete a node, etc.
Oh, and since I am asking questions, when do I use the split path, object to path, close path items? I never really understood that in Inkscape, so avoided it except when doing the fill in Inkscape. ANd the only reason I did it then was because it was on my cheat sheet that Penny gave me on how to do the fill. LOL.